I’ve become fascinated by a YouTube channel called Catfished (not to be confused with the MTV program called Catfish) This site is sponsored by a service that helps people determine if someone they’re communicating with online is a scammer. Astonishingly, people are willing to send thousands and up to over a million dollars of their savings to total strangers they’ve met online. Generally these crooks target people going through difficult periods in their lives and swoop in like the predators they are.
You can follow this link to view their videos. https://www.youtube.com/@CatfishedOnline The company does have commercials for their scam-detecting services. I can’t vouch for their services but what they do offer legitimate ways to help scope out a scammer, though many of the steps they take are things you can do for yourself if you’re tech-savvy.
I’ll cut to the chase and give you some intel on how to spot these crooks:
1. They are too good to be true: Romance scammers often create fake profiles using pictures of attractive people. These profiles may seem too perfect, with professional-looking photos and an overly flattering description.
2. They want to move too quickly: Romance scammers often try to establish a relationship quickly, sometimes even within the first few messages. They may profess their love and want to move to a private messaging app or email.
3. They ask for money: This is a big red flag. Romance scammers may ask for money for a variety of reasons, such as a medical emergency or travel expenses to come and meet you.
4. They avoid video calls: If your online match refuses to do a video call or meet in person, it could be a sign that they are not who they say they are.
5. They have a sob story: Romance scammers often have elaborate stories to explain why they need money. They may claim to be in the military or have a sick family member. 6. They ask for personal information: Be cautious if your online match asks for personal information such as your address, social security number, or bank account information.
7. They have inconsistencies in their story: If your online match’s story doesn’t add up or they seem to have trouble keeping their story straight, it could be a sign that they are not being truthful. Remember, if something seems too good to be true, it probably is.
Always be cautious when communicating with someone online and never send money to someone you haven’t met in person. Actually, I’m opposed to sending money to people I have met in person!
Even if this all seems like common sense to you, be aware that it isn’t second nature to everyone. So, if you have a friend or loved one communicating with someone online, be sure to `watch out for the signs.